Sunday, October 2, 2022

Monthly Shenanigans

Bloop. I keep messing these up and doing them late. Sorry!

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Well, today is #NationalComingOutDay and guess what, I have news. I've been thinking about how I move through the world and what it means for me, and the results are in: I'm non-binary. My pronouns are he/they.

I still consider myself a 'guy', mostly, but I'm not completely male. One term I've found is 'demimasc' but none of these terms are necessarily the best fit. I still present mostly male, but then I might end up acting or dressing or sounding more femme on a given occasion.

Alongside the gender stuff, I've also come to the conclusion I'm aromantic. Thus I have little to no romantic attraction - I don't get crushes, and I'm not big on dating (though for the right partner, I might push myself).

Nonetheless, I do have sexual attraction and am healthy in everything to that regard (allosexual); that orients itself toward feminine-presenting people - not just cis women, then, but also trans women and even some very femme enbies and fellas.

I really have to thank Mark, among others, for guidance and inspiration on various aspects of queer identity and non-binary identification in particular. Cheers!
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Let's have a post for January and the new year!

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